Tackling domestic violence, support services are critical
Annie's husband beat her up often. He raped her as well. She was an unfit mother. Useless. He told her so. They had once been in love. Sometimes he was gentle and sweet but at other times he was a maniac, cursing and whipping wildly. "There was lots of alcohol, lots of drug abuse," she told me, almost whispering. Time sped. Together they had six daughters, all beautiful and healthy. One day Annie* decided that she couldn't pretend any more. She would take herself and the kids away from that life. But how? She was at risk of serious injury to both herself and the children if she left. The fear of violence was itself a powerful weapon. "He'd always take one of the girls with him all the time. "He knew by doing that he had a pawn to play. It was about control." There was another problem. Her husband was the bread winner. She worried about homelessness, hunger, the humiliation. One day a female police officer told her about an emergency ...