Romantic love: what's it good for?
In her best-selling 1970 work The Female Eunuch , Germaine Greer urged a great awakening; for women to exercise their freedoms and stop being passive. The Bachelorette put that to the test, 45 years later. The female lead, 26-year-old Sam Frost, was indeed in the driver's seat, choosing a man on her own terms. She asserted her virility. In the last few episodes she intensely kissed all the men still standing. But on the other hand, Frost was an advertiser's dream. Projected as The Ideal, she was slim, symmetrical, fair-skinned and mostly discreet. Ours is a culture that urges individuality, but then pushes on us perpetual "types". Television does it best. The dwindling list of chosen blokes were all chiseled and sporty. Hundreds of thousands of us watched it because we structure our whole lives around romantic love, philosophy Professor Carrie Ichikawa Jenkins of British Columbia University says. It's a powerful force, yet we rarely wrestle with what i...